[This is a long one!...]
My baby was telling me a funny story about when she went out with her friends in Greece. She went out with her bff Nikos and her friend Xander. She says that Nikos has never been with a girl. She said she tried to hook him up with a girl, but he screwed it up. He just feels so down about himself and my gf says that she has to hear about this every single minute, everyday, every hour etc. She said that they went to a bar and she decided that they were going to go to the bars in Gazi. She said they were walking to the bar and this gay guy hit on him and he freaked out. My baby was cracking up so hard about it. So my gf saved him and told him that she was his gf. He was freaking out about it and she said that they will go to another bar, but she warned both of her friends that they wouldn't be able to pick up any girls because it was a lesbian bar.
So they sat at the table and there was this girl who was looking at them and Nikos felt that the girl was staring at him. He was saying that they had a connection and he had such a big smile on his face (my babe said that he didn't realize that she was the waitress). So she comes over to the table and she asks them what they want to drink and my baby said that Nikos smile just disappeared. He started complaining and saying he's never going to get a girl.
He was saying how Lila has had more girls than him and doesn't understand what's wrong with him. Then later the waitress came over and gave them a free drink, my baby said that this really butch girl offered her the drink. My baby told the waitress that she didn't want it, but the waitress said that it was rude and she should just take it. So my gf gave it to Nikos (and she said that he didn't hear the conversation she had with the waitress) he thought that the waitress was giving it to him. My gf was laughing about it because he thought again that he had a chance with the waitress. He had a smile back on his face again and he said to Lila, see I knew we had a connection.
My gf was cracking up inside, he bet her that he was going to ask her out and made a bet with my gf that she was going to say yes. My gf said no, I don't want to make a bet, but he kept insisting. She said ok, well 20 euros - my baby already knew the outcome. He asks the waitress to come over and then asks her out and she denies him telling him that she's gay. Then again, Nikos goes and slouches back down into his sad mood.
I told my gf, poor guy. She said, I know but it's pretty funny and if it changes then she won't have anything to tease him about anymore. I asked her if he's a bad looking guy and she said he's not bad. She said she's going to have to help fix him up, since he's got a unibrow and his hair is down to his chin so he'll need a real guy cut. She's going to have to teach him lessons again on how to talk to a girl because wow he screwed up on the girl from the story my babe told me.
So my gf and I were talking about our past relationships. There's a lot so I'm going to try to cram everything as I had done with the story above. So I tell my babe how I was in relationships with men and I didn't feel right about things, that I tried to be straight but I wasn't happy. I was telling her how my cousin said that I should be with my ex Lorian, because he still loves me. I said, I don't care about that, I'm not interested in him that way. She was like well it'd make everyone happy. My gf laughed and was being all sarcastic saying, yeah and everyone will be happy except for me. Yes that makes perfect sense! I told her, yeah exactly I can do that and pretend just so that I can fit in what everyone feels is normal. I can't be happy that way. Then I told her that my friend still tries to convince me that I'm not fully gay. He's like come on, I want you to come over to my house in your spray painted hat and your knee high socks (people know me by my trademarked socks). I was telling my gf that it was making me mad because he tells me that I want him and other things I will not get into, it grosses me out and I don't want that at all. My gf laughs.
I told my gf that I was always into girls ever since I was small. I told her my first dream was of Madonna when I was like 6. My gf started cracking up so hard. I told her that I was kissing her in her "Like a Virgin," era. My babe was just laughing even harder. She was saying that's the theme for Nikos. She said that when he slept over she set her alarm clock to play that song and she put it next to his ear. He woke up to that song and he threw the pillow at her, telling her she was such a bitch. My gf is such a pratical joker, we are alike. I love her so much! I was telling my gf when I was small I was such a tomboy, that I hung out with the guys and loved playing with boys toys. I was with my friend who was also a tomboy, her mom was friends with my mom, I told her I remember my mom was saying that it was just a phase and we'd grow out of it. Then I told my gf, that I had crushes on girls thru high school but I never did anything about it, I just held it inside. I told her when I was playing in sports, I had crushes on my teammates. My gf laughed again, I think she remembered her stalker teammate who stalks her. I told her that I didn't totally come out until Sofia.
Then she said, ok I have a personal, private question you don't have to answer, how many relationships with guys did you have? She's like, you really don't have to answer that and don't tell me if the number is a lot. I won't be able to handle how many because I'm going to be jealous. I said, well number of relationships I had with men? I said, well I can tell you that it's less than 10. She was like ok, I can handle that. She asked me what was my longest relationship with a guy, I said 3 years on and off. Her eyes grew wide, 3 years? I said yeah, but I wasn't happy enough to stay in it and I tried. I told her that I didn't know the count on how many guys I've dated. I was telling my babe that I was bad when I was dating guys, they would think that I was already their gf on the first day and I would never call them again. I'd just let them hanging and wouldn't answer my phone when they called. She said I'm such a heartbreaker. I said that also, if I didn't know a number I wouldn't answer the call. My babe said, remind me not to come and surprise you when I come to visit you. I said you can leave a message or text me and I'll know to come pick you up (so sweet she would do that for me). She also said, that she has to be careful because I might just run away and leave her. I said, I'm still here aren't I? She said yes but you might change your mind. I said I would have left you from the start. She was like oh ok, well we'll see in June. I just laughed at my babe.
She was like ok let's change the question, which relationship was the one that hurt you the most? I told her it was Sofia. I explained that she hurt me so much, because I invested so much in our relationship, I trusted and loved her. She broke my heart. My babe already knew the details, I could write about it here but it's too much. I'd have to write more than just one blog to get everything across. I was telling my love how when we broke up, I wrote a list of advantages and disadvantages of why I should be with her. She was laughing so hard. She told me she did that with her ex, Eirini and she only had 2 on her list of advantages and the rest were on the disadvantage list. She tried to make sense of it and her bff was like, see you can't go back to that. I told my babe that on my list at the time I was reading it, I was convincing myself that the list made sense that I should still be with her. But now that I had read it, I could see that I should have already ran away and not look back. That what I had read clearly was a red flag. My love said that when you are in that phase, you can't see things clearly. Apparently, she's right about that. Of course I went through the typical DABDA stages. Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance.
My babe said that for her she wasn't the one hurt in a relationship but more that she hurt this guy she was with for about 3 weeks. She said she couldn't do it anymore and told them she had to sit down and talk. She told him that she couldn't be with him anymore because she didn't feel that way towards him. He asked her, why not? She said she told him this word in Greek which isn't really a nice way to say things, but in english it's kind of like saying - because I said so. She said he put his hands underneath the table and she couldn't see them and she was thinking that he was going to throw the table at her. Even after she told him that she didn't want to be with him, he still questioned her again. She told him, because I'm gay. He sat there and was thinking, still with his hands under the table, my baby was ready to get hit. Then he says, ok so when do we pick up some chics? Hahahah man, that's hilarious.
My babe has a bunch of great stories. She told me the only girl that had rejected her is her bff now, Anastazia. I was surprised by that, but she is a hottie. She said when they met in high school she was always hanging out with her all the time. She was always close to her and when my baby was hanging out with other people she would get real jealous. She would say, what are you doing with her? Then one day my baby was asking her out, she told her she's not gay. My baby said that she led her on and her friend told her she never did anything to make her think that way. My baby said she wanted to prove a point to her that she actually did and showed her the letter that she wrote to my girl saying that she wanted to kiss her. I was like omg! My babe was like, see am I right? If she said something like that would you think that she was hitting on you? I said, YEAH!
As we were talking, my girl's bff called her. She said that she was going to come up. My babe was like, do you want to meet her? I said yes babe. So she came in and sat down. I said to her, I heard so much about you. She said, yes I heard a lot about you too. =] We were kind of shy to begin with and my babe was doing all the talking. Evi was saying that she is shy and said to Lila that she is shy too. My gf was teasing her bff the whole time. My baby said, yes but If I didn't do any talking then we would all sit in silence. My baby went to prove a point and she got all silent, she was looking down. Evi was saying something to me behind Lila, but I had no clue what she was trying to tell me. Then my gf looked back at Evi and she stopped with her hand signals. My gf was saying if Evi was doing something behind her back and I said nope. She's like are you sure because I thought I saw her hands move. I said no she wasn't doing anything babe.
So then I asked Evi to tell me about Lila because she knows a lot more since she is her bff. She said that she needs to go out so she can talk about her. My gf said you can talk about me while I'm right here next to you. She was like, ok. Well Lila is very beautiful. My gf was like, yes I am. =D She studies so much. I can't remember the other things she said, I couldn't hear to well because she was away from the computer and her accent is much thicker. My baby was telling me that she's the bff that was waiting outside her ex gf's place waiting to kick her ass. She was saying that there is no point to do that, which wouldn't solve anything. I said it would make you feel better! Evi was like see, I told you!!! My gf was saying that she's the one I can drink tequila with. I told my babe, I thought you aren't supposed to say that! She said, not me you aren't supposed to!
Lila said, you will bring her tequila so she won't be shy. I said, I'll bring her 1800...it's smoother than tequila. Lila said to Evi, see you'll like that! I said yes and I'll also bring coffee patron! So we talked for a long while (all 3 of us) and then my baby said that they have to go and study. I said well it was nice meeting you and Evi said it was nice meeting you too. My gf was making fun of both of us how we were both looking down shyly saying that to each other. Then my gf was like, wait show her your tattoo. So I showed Evi my tattoo, she was like it's nice. I said yes and this tattoo is dedicated to her and I pointed at my baby. My gf said it was weird to see her handwriting on my arm. I looked at my tattoo, smiling and said it's the best tattoo and my favorite one that I have. My gf said ok, we can stop talking about it - she was become all blushed. My baby said so we'll talk tomorrow? I said yes babe. She said well just text me and I'll go on. I said ok babe have a good night and blew her a kiss.
So below are the texts before we got on Skype, then other texts was when my gf sent me way later in the night asking about my bday because her bff was making Lila's and my couple chart. Also, some other texts on what my gf's bff thought about me! =] Keep reading all the way to the end! <3 (Took me awhile to write this blog, I wouldn't have been able to write all this on my iphone)!
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