It was like old times, when I was helping Sofia do her flyers for her projects she needed. Talking today to her was...as I told her, bitter sweet. It felt like how it was before when we were together, but at the same time it felt different. I can't really explain it. What really hit me was when she told me that it hurt her that I had asked for my stuff back that I had given to her. At that very moment, I started crying hard and I felt real bad. I couldn't stop crying. (The first time I went to visit her in the UK back in 2007, before I left, she asked me to give her a piece of me to remember me by. I was hesitant about giving my love is shorts to her because I loved them and collected them, but I loved her too. I thought to myself well it doesn't matter, because we'll be together forever and I'd have it back anyways when we finally are together). I loved this girl and I thought that I'd be over her, but I can honestly say that she's my first love and it goes both ways. I'm her first love as well and how could I think for a second that she didn't care about me? She hasn't stopped. When I was asking for my things back, I thought that it wasn't going to be a big deal. I didn't know the shorts had any sentimental feelings to her anymore, I thought that she threw out all of our memories forever and not ever look back. So that's why she told me that she didn't want to share her opinion about the things that she added to the shorts when she returned them to me. I took it all the wrong way.
I'm so emotional right now because she's my first love and it's true. First loves never die. I hurt her and she hurt me, but it happens when you love someone so much. If you didn't love a person, then you wouldn't have felt such pain. You could walk away, like nothing happened. I came to a point that I wanted to end my life. Love is the most important thing to me and losing the one you love is the hardest thing to ever go through. A broken heart is the worst. It's like having broken ribs. Nobody can see it, but it hurts every time you breathe. That's how it felt to lose her each time. Geez, I need to stop being all emotional. At the same time, I was playing the Someone Like You song by Adele and that got me even more emo. Then my baby texted me and broke the tension of my tears into laughter. Like Sofia said, I've moved on and now I have to start a new chapter in my life. For both of us it is weird that we call each other by each others first names, even if it's been so long. And again, like Sofia said, I'm someone else's baby now. Weird, I didn't think that would happen that we'd be just talking as friends. Well, I will meet up again with her in Athens with my girl for drinks. Hopefully by then, I'll be totally fluent in Greek so I can understand what both are saying behind my back! Kidding. The love of my life and then with my true love somewhere in Athens all together in one table, that will be the day. I guess though everything is fine now between Sofia and I. I didn't want to hold back anything I wanted to say, I wanted to let her know everything. Although, letting her know everything would take days because you can only say so much on Skype.
Love is a cycle. When you love, you get hurt. When you get hurt, you hate. When you hate, you try to forget. When you try to forget, you start missing. And when you start missing...you'll eventually fall inlove again.
I'm so emotional right now because she's my first love and it's true. First loves never die. I hurt her and she hurt me, but it happens when you love someone so much. If you didn't love a person, then you wouldn't have felt such pain. You could walk away, like nothing happened. I came to a point that I wanted to end my life. Love is the most important thing to me and losing the one you love is the hardest thing to ever go through. A broken heart is the worst. It's like having broken ribs. Nobody can see it, but it hurts every time you breathe. That's how it felt to lose her each time. Geez, I need to stop being all emotional. At the same time, I was playing the Someone Like You song by Adele and that got me even more emo. Then my baby texted me and broke the tension of my tears into laughter. Like Sofia said, I've moved on and now I have to start a new chapter in my life. For both of us it is weird that we call each other by each others first names, even if it's been so long. And again, like Sofia said, I'm someone else's baby now. Weird, I didn't think that would happen that we'd be just talking as friends. Well, I will meet up again with her in Athens with my girl for drinks. Hopefully by then, I'll be totally fluent in Greek so I can understand what both are saying behind my back! Kidding. The love of my life and then with my true love somewhere in Athens all together in one table, that will be the day. I guess though everything is fine now between Sofia and I. I didn't want to hold back anything I wanted to say, I wanted to let her know everything. Although, letting her know everything would take days because you can only say so much on Skype.
Love is a cycle. When you love, you get hurt. When you get hurt, you hate. When you hate, you try to forget. When you try to forget, you start missing. And when you start missing...you'll eventually fall inlove again.
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